Adoptee Chris Sargaent reflects on what he gained from attending the VANISH peer support groups and the importance of lived experience.

Mousumi’s adoption from India to Australia was supposed to be her happy ending. Instead, it marked the beginning of new struggles—but also a journey toward building the life and family she deserved.

Jo shares the story of her search and reunion experience, assisted by VANISH’s intermediary service. Her journey spans over two years of searching, navigating complex interstate adoption records, and ultimately connecting with her mother after more than 50 years apart.

“Adoption, from the perspective of an adoptee”

I am still searching for my identity as it was lost at birth.

“Infans VOIC’D”

Based on real stories of adult adoptees, this powerful audio-drama gives voice to the lifelong impact of closed-records adoption in Australia.

“The Events”

I don’t have any recollection of actually being told that I was adopted. I have always known. We had a book called “Don’t tell me about Goldilocks”

“It’s hard to tell a story when half of it is missing.
When it’s more question than answer, more echo than voice…”

“A Complete Story”

The meditative lapping of sea water against the ribs of my shiny little, walnut shaped boat, are rhythmic, soothing, calming.

“Infant-maternal separation”

This is the singular event I am forever changed by, and since the lifting of the fog, actively trying to heal from.

First came a friend request on Facebook. Just another 'I don't even know you' moment like so many others so I just ignored it. About a week later the postie was knocking on my door with a registered letter. My mind started racing, was this good news or bad? I looked...