Search and support for adults impacted by adoption and family separation
From people who understand
Who we help
Adoption and family separation impact people differently. No matter what your experience is, our lived experience-led team is here for you.
If you were adopted, not knowing where you come from, or feeling like others don’t quite get it, can be exhausting. We can help you search for family, make sense of your life journey, and connect with people who understand.
If you’re a mother or father separated from a child through adoption, you may have carried this silently for decades. We can help you understand your options and take things at whatever pace feels right.
If someone you care about is adopted, you might want to better understand and support the person you love, but not quite know where to start. We can help with that too.
We can also provide information and advice to donor-conceived people and care leavers. Get in touch to find out more.
Personal stories
Latest news and events
Why VANISH matters: The healing power of connection and creativity
Adoptee Megan Fromholtz shares her experience of the VANISH Adoptee Wellbeing Day in Albury-Wodonga.
“Only through VANISH have I survived” – Adoptee support services at risk after 30 June as funding lapses
VANISH’s specialist support services for adoptees are in jeopardy as Victorian Government funding for counselling brokerage and peer support groups lapses.
We apologised for forced adoption, but not to adoptees
Despite the National Apology, adoptee trauma has not been adequately recognised in its own right, writes Victorian adoptee Jennifer Pont. Republished with permission from Eureka Street.
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