Personal Stories
Learning about other people’s experiences can be helpful in validating your own experience and knowing that you are not alone. Here are some personal stories from VANISH service users who have been affected by past adoption practices and separation from family.
Now there are many books, articles, documentaries, blogs, and podcasts that focus on a range of adoption-related topics. If you would like recommendations of further material, please contact us.
Facing Adoption Head On
Adoptee Chris Sargaent reflects on what he gained from attending the VANISH peer support groups and the importance of lived experience.
From the Streets of Kolkata to a New Life in Australia
Mousumi’s adoption from India to Australia was supposed to be her happy ending. Instead, it marked the beginning of new struggles—but also a journey toward building the life and family she deserved.
Jo’s Search and Reunion
Jo shares the story of her search and reunion experience, assisted by VANISH’s intermediary service. Her journey spans over two years of searching, navigating complex interstate adoption records, and ultimately connecting with her mother after more than 50 years apart.
Storytelling: Adoption, from the perspective of an adoptee
“Adoption, from the perspective of an adoptee”
I am still searching for my identity as it was lost at birth.
Oral History: Giving a Public Voice to Adult Adoptees
“Infans VOIC’D”
Based on real stories of adult adoptees, this powerful audio-drama gives voice to the lifelong impact of closed-records adoption in Australia.
Storytelling: The Events
“The Events”
I don’t have any recollection of actually being told that I was adopted. I have always known. We had a book called “Don’t tell me about Goldilocks”
Storytelling: The Silence Between Us
“It’s hard to tell a story when half of it is missing.
When it’s more question than answer, more echo than voice…”
Storytelling: A complete story
“A Complete Story”
The meditative lapping of sea water against the ribs of my shiny little, walnut shaped boat, are rhythmic, soothing, calming.
Storytelling: Infant-maternal separation
“Infant-maternal separation”
This is the singular event I am forever changed by, and since the lifting of the fog, actively trying to heal from.
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